?

Log in

No account? Create an account

Next Entry

Friends Only and Friends List Cut


Credit for the banner goes to miss_mary_b.

I'm finally doing what I've been talking about and taking my journal Friends Only, as well as making the friends list cuts that I've been pondering for a while now. I've come to accept that the demands on my time make it difficult for me to read everyone. I'm already skimming memes, fictional writings, and other large postings, and I feel guilty about that. I want to be able to give everyone on my friends list the respect, time, energy, and attention they deserve.

Please know that the cuts are nothing personal. If I removed you, it doesn't mean that I'm mad at you, I don't like you, or you did anything wrong; it just means we either never really connected beyond the initial "getting to know you" phase or we don't have much interaction in general. If you're upset, please let me know and we'll talk about it. Likewise, if you followed my journal when it was still public and have a specific post you wish was still public, please let me know; I may make it public again for you. :)

Comments

( 3 comments — Leave a comment )
itzwicks
Sep. 6th, 2010 06:47 am (UTC)
I so understand...
The need to trim down is understandable, and I hope you are able to keep things in perspective. In any event, if I don't make the cut, I certainly wish you and yours well.

Never forget to always live like you mean it! ;-)
jebbypal
Sep. 6th, 2010 02:15 pm (UTC)
*hugs* All is good and I understand completely. Good luck in the future and I hope that this allows LJ to become the fun haven for you once again.
elfinecstasy
Oct. 4th, 2010 11:02 pm (UTC)
I just wanted to say I'm sorry we never really got much of a chance to know each other - these past weeks I've not been posting at all because of a hurt wrist :-( and I feel like I never really got to know you.

I so understand the need for a close, truly connected friends list, and I wish you much much joy in your journal here. :-)

If you ever wish to re-add me, you are always welcome. May your path be blessed :-)
( 3 comments — Leave a comment )

Latest Month

January 2012
S M T W T F S
1234567
891011121314
15161718192021
22232425262728
293031