I was fascinated by this
yesterday, staying up until five am to read up because while I'm not even in the SPN fandom, things said on the OP's posts can teach us all a lot about how NOT to behave in fandom (i.e. don't be a victim-blaming asshat with entitlement issues). And I was really proud of how people were responding in the comments (now disabled) and how people were trying to educate the poster on why she was wrong in how she'd handled it. And I was so relieved that none of the people defending her were people on my flist (that I saw, anyway).
And then I woke up to this gem of a post
, and I just lost it. ( Collapse )