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Evanescence

ER... Doctors and MORE Doctors!!!

Well, since I've had my period for about 10 weeks now as I've already said a few weeks back I think. I finally gave in and went to the ER. Now why the ER because my insurance SUCKS and no one takes it!!! Blame the government lol... Well, I was at the ER for about 5 hours They did a sonogram, blood work, and an internal. They said everything was "OK" and they found cysts of course. With my condition I'll have them the rest of my life. Well, they discharged me and gave me a number for a gyno out of the hospital that would follow up with me for free. I thought that was nice of him until I met him. Ironically it's the same doctor that my sister uses and she has an apt. Wednesday night for a check up (she's preg). I made an apt. for Thursday morning. I went there and as soon as I met him I knew I wouldn't like him. he was SOOO mean to me now there was no nurse in the room during my exam. He asked me a few questions and he then did another internal. I didn't think anything of it until he went out of the room to get prong like instrument. OMG he did a biopsy of my cervix!!! I was never in so much pain in all my life, he's like you'll feel a pinch! A pinch??? Ya OK! After I felt like I was going to throw up. HE was asking me questions and I couldn't even answer him. He asked why I wasn't working and on disability like it's his business to know! He then told me I had to lose weight like I didn't already know that! IT was just a horrible visit. He said he was going to call with the results in an hour and he never did. So now I have to call Monday if they don't call me. I'm hoping everything is OK, but I'm still in a lot of pain :( He gave me a lose dose birth control. *sigh* being a women sucks! 

On a happier note were planning a Disney trip for the last week of August into Labor Day. I can't wait! I'll let you know when its official when I'm def. going :) This was my week off and I did nothing as it was full of being sick in bed most of the time. I have a paper due Monday and I didn't' even start it :( bah...

Angelina Jolie *Lesbian*

Tired.. Don't Feel Good.. Stressed :(

Well school is almost over this semester can't belive it! It's over beginning of May but after Spring break which is next week we only have about 4 weeks left. I have alot to do in these short few weeks left. Papers, finals, and more papers. The end of the semester always creep's up so fast but it's like bam you have tons 2 do that you left for the last minute lol thats me! Always the last minute. I'm really tired today and feel really emotionally drained for some reason. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I've had my period for six weeks! I need to go on birth control but I just haven't called up a gyno to make an apt. I also need to get a new gyno so it's going to be annoying since they dont know my history ect. And to go in with a period its just gross. Blah. Next week is finally Spring break but I have nothing planned but school work. I also have to try and get more things done around the townhouse so we can put it up for sale as were moving. Were I have no idea! I do plan on moving to florida after I graduate grad school. I'm done with NY there's nothing here for me, I hate the snow and the cold and I need a change I think. Maybe I'll meet a girl there *cough ya right* but you never know. I gave up looking for someone came to the conclusion that I'll most probably be alone forever mabye I'll just be with a man like WIll and Grace lol I dont want to be alone I really don't but you can't make someone want you, you know? It seem's that now a day's everyone has a gf but me, I'm always the other wheel. THe 3rd wheel, 5th wheel and so on, its not fun I'll tell you that much. I just watched the L word season finale and I cried, I cried because it's the last one lol and also bc it gets me thinking about my own life. I am so sick of being alone, watching my life past me by and having no one in it. I hardly see my friend's these day's as they are always in a "mood" I also have no money to do anything which doesn't help. My head is pounding right now :( Blah If anyone has anyone in mind I can meet please let me know lol I always wonder if I was skinny would i still be alone? I really want a lap band, I've been looking into it again. My health is so bad though they would most probably never clear me for surgery. With having my period for 6 weeks, not sleeping right, my spleen has been inflamed, and so on... My life is so boring right now its like at a boring stage, Ya I'm in grad school but that's about it. THese are the "best" years of our life ya right! My life was alot better when I was younger and I thought it was bad then, if only i knew what it would be today! I would probably of done things differently. Its really strange how back then I had a lot of girls emaling me, meeting them ect. There was one time in my life (age 19) I met a different girl on a date once a week! Now I haven't met anyone since Dee and that was like September. Like I said I've given up, but there is only so long someone can be alone! Were a world that we need other's, we need to be loved and feel loved and have a meaningful relationship. Oh well... I guess were not all here to be loved and to have someone to love...

Update... Nothing Special

Well, I was having major computer prolems once again. I had to restore the factory savings and wipe out the whole C drive. Took about two nights to get it all finshed. I've been meaning to update, but I just haven't had alot of time nor the energy to write. Alot has been going on with me physically now more then mentally. School is amazing but ALOT of work! I got a 90% on my first Graduate Test and a B on my fist paper. We are alowed to resbumit it if we want a better grade and that is what i'll be working on this weekend! I had a test last night and one tonight *cough it's 5am* I just finshed studying. Hm well I need to see a doctor like YESTERDAY! I've had my period now for 4 weeks and I just can't sleep. I've tried EVERY sleep med over the counter and RX and none have worked for me. I know there' something def wrong with me but I'm just really scared to find out what it is! It's scary but I know it needs to be done! I found a few that take my insurance so I just have to call them. I know somethings wrong wtih me becaue my body doesn't heal common cuts like I got a cut on my finger from my own finger nail and its been a week and still red and just scabed. My immune system is shut I know that much. My sleep cycle is all messed up and I feel like shit physically. But, it takes away from the mental crap even though these day's tehre hasn't been much mental going on which is great. Um my sister is preg. and she is having another boy. SHe wasn't to happy about that, but that's life lol. Um were getting our townhouse ready to put up for sale. We need to sell so we can pay off our debt my mom and I are in over our head's with debt. It's a huge stress that we both don't need right now as she's not physically well either. I'm having Disney World withdrawls but my mom promised we can go when we sell our house! My Undergrad graduation is coming up it's in May and I'm pretty excited about that, I'm thinking if I want to have a small type party but i'm not 100% sure because I dont think my fam will come even though im' the first to graduate from undergrad and the first one in my family in garduate school. I also dont have alot of friend to invite but we'll see as its not till the end of May. June is a busy month for everyone though so I dont know when we'd do it. Hmm I don't think there's much else going on right now besides the physical crap and the business of school. I've been trying to go out on teh weekend's as much as possible as my social life was at a stand still for a few months but its getting back on track. I do have a crush on a girl but she like's boy type girls so that doesn't help me, but she's in my "group" of friends and so we'll see what happens down the line. Right now I'm not even to worried about finding someone, if someone is out here then they will find me. Everyone said to stop looking as it won't happen. Yes I dont like being "alone" and yes i miss being with someone physically, sexually and all that jazz but you can't make someone appear out of thin air you know? Shrugs we'll see what happens. People just started asking me if I found someone, it has been a year since Mary adn I broke up.. I can't believe its a year, At times it feel's like it was just yesterday and at other time's it feel's like it was years ago! This fall I might be starting my first internship i'm excited and nervouse at the same time. I really need to fix myself physically before I can do anything. I guess that's about it for today as I should be sleeping! I have to be at school earlier tomorrow so I can take my test. I get extra time so i go earlier then the norm time. So instead of being there at 5:30 I gotta be there by 4:30pm. The drive is really a killer though! It's 45-60 minutes away. THe drive there is the stress because I'm always running late. Thank god its only 3 days a week right now. 30 miles one way is alot ! But I have no choice! 

I have a few new pic's I took a few week's ago I'll post them haha

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Well, that's it! Thanks for reading :)