Not because I don't want to make friends but because what I write is personal and I want to know who is reading my thoughts and life events. I'm married to my best friend, we have gone through ups and downs but are still together. Have been married for 4 years, together for 5. He's in Ft. Sill, OK transitioning from a Sailor to a Solider while I stay here in Oregon raising our mini Army. I have 4 children and am a birth mother to 1 great little guy who lives with his father and mother in the land of sunshine and smiles. I have 2 furry kitties and 1 huge scaredy cat dog. I listen to country and rock mainly. I have a love for a horrible football team and keep praying every year they will get better, seriously though the Oakland Raiders will never be able to pull their heads out of their asses long enough to get back on top. That's okay though I still love them. Through out the year every Sunday is taken up with either Football or NASCAR. I love being a Christian but I haven't found another church that soothes my heart the way my old one did. I don't thump people with my thoughts and beliefs because if we were all the same life would be absolutely boring. Feel free to add me.