Planning my Fourth Annual Fiftieth Birthday Party.

 Although technically it's on the 8th of October, so many of my friends from the States will be in town for Rubber Ball weekend (1st-4th Oct) so I'm torn between these options:

Option One: Black Veil
   This is ON my birthday. It's a Japaneese Gothic and Lolita party from Osaka and they're doing a one-time-only party in London in which they've offered me my own room (much like my birthday last year at Cabaret Macabre) and I can have an extensive guest-list, my own DJ's etc.

Option Two: My place
   I want to do this on the Tuesday or Wednesday after Rubber Ball, so that my friends from the US will be in town for it.

Option Three: Fuck it. Let's do both. Woot.

Now, I'm more inclined toward Option Two because all ya'll will be tuckered out from Rubber Ball weekend, and having an informal do at mine will be more appealing than a club. It's virtually the same thing, just a different "venue" that no one has to get dressed up for. However...
How FUCKING cool is a genuine Gothic and Lolita party. But will anyone be up for it?

I ask you!

What would you rather go to?