001. I'm not even going to bother with the original formatting of my journal posts, even though I'm ocd enough that it will bother me and I'll probably come back later and edit this entry to match the format of all the other's before it. But, I just ... this is really ridiculous and childish. The more I got to thinking about how inklane talked about me publicly behind my back and bad mouthed me on her personal twitter, the more pissed off I get about it. And the amazing thing is, it's such a hypocritical thing for her to do.
I'm well aware that I have mutual friends on my flist that have her friended as well and probably hasn't experienced an incident like this, I'm not usually one to make a post like this where I'm actually calling someone out right, but this shit just isn't going to fly with me. She took something that I said the wrong way, over-reacted, then turned around and bad mouthed me to all of her friends publicly on her twitter where she KNEW I would see it, and then de-friended me on livejournal.
And I'm thinking, WTF?! Srsly ... is she for real or something? Because, honestly this is just ludicrous.
I also have the proof that she and at least one of her other friends were talking about me on her personal twitter, copy and pasted from there exactly like it was written.
So apparently I'm not allowed to have my own opinions anymore on MY OWN LIVE JOURNAL. Really? It was my review, I'm allowed to say what...
3:26 PM Feb 15th from web
I actually think. Apparently not. To think that my opinion would get someone 'shaking' with anger (in her words) is just beyond me.
3:27 PM Feb 15th from web
@CatherJane91 lmao _touched, who is someone who's been on my flist for awhile. It wouldn't bother me so much is she wasn't on my...
3:30 PM Feb 15th from web
@CatherineJane91 flist because she certainly doesn't act like my friend. I feel uncomfortable speaking my mind now on LJ.
3:31 PM Feb 15th from web
@legendsinlove yeah, Thanks bb. It was just a SV episode review. That's it. I shouldn't be getting rude comments from some1 on my flist :\
3:33 PM Feb 15th from web
@inklane Maybe the review got close to something personal for her? It might've triggered something personal or painful? /:
3:37 PM Feb 15th from TweetDeck in reply to inklane
[I bolded that, so that you could see something very important. This person, actually hit the nail on the head. I wasn't angry or frustrated with inklane, so much as I was upset and frustrated with the memory of something traumatic that her words had brought to light. It was something that I hadn't thought of in years and in that one moment, all of those old horrible painful and personal feelings came back to me in a rush and I really wasn't at my right state of mind. So, I just simply said what I was thinking abliet before thinking about what was said and the "so angry I'm shaking" had absolutely nothing to do with this girl and everything to do with what I was feeling. So, in all honesty, it was truly a misunderstanding gone very awry without her even trying to figure it out or work out the issue, she just took it publicly to her twitter and had a field day talking bad about me amongst all of her other friends. At least this person, had the decency to understand and quite possibly be onto something.]
I just..wow. I can't even- sometimes I wish I was mean enough to cut people just like that.
3:34 PM Feb 15th from web
@legendsinlove IKR? Just..wow. I was shocked lmao
3:36 PM Feb 15th from web
@legendsinlove maybe idk. I've had issues with her being rude to me before though, maybe it's just her personality.
3:41 PM Feb 15th from web
[ At this point, I'm seriously like what issues, because the only one I could think of was the time when I politely asked her if I could post my Clark/Lois fanmix that I was so proud of at clois_daily and she so rudely told me no that self-promotion wasn't allowed and that totally wasn't what I doing at all. Sometimes, I think people are just born to be ridiculous.]
@CatherineJane91 Maybe I should, I'm so angry right now. LJ is like the one place you should be afraid to write your views.
3:42 PM Feb 15th from web
@louiselane Wow, really? hmm. I do feel a little better knowing it's not just me lmao
3:42 PM Feb 15th from web
@CatherineJane91 Right? And I keep everything locked thinking I don't trust the fandom in general, but at least my own flist :\
3:48 PM Feb 15th from web
[ You know, I might actually keep everything locked in my journal too, if I were a creepy creeper who was stalking someone else and making it their life's mission to steal their identity because they're not cool enough to oh idk, maybe come up with their own.
Oh, and it doesn't stop there, either. It gets so much better with @CatherineJane91's twitter, you can check out out here just click your way back to Feb 15th and it won't be hard to know exactly who they are talking about and what incident.
This one, though ... I have to say it's my personal favorite:
@inklane Aw, I'm glad I could help! Love you too! :)) Remember, in times of crisis ask yourself: What would Lois Lane do? LOL!
3:55 PM Feb 15th from web in reply to inklane
@CatherineJane91 lmao that's the answer for all of life's problems :D
3:55 PM Feb 15th from web
Yes, do tell me bitch ... what would Lois Lane do?! Probably kick your skank ass, for talking shit about someone you DON'T EVEN frakking know.]
@louiselane Wow, I never knew that. Thanks for the info. I'm thinking I just might have to ask her to take me off her friends list.
3:55 PM Feb 15th from web
[ And that's pretty much where it ends, unless she's said something about me on her personal journal and I can't see it, because she's de-friended me now. But, I just thought that you guys might want to see what I was talking about when I gave the heads about the incident that I posted about the other day. Make of it what you will.]
I said I was over it, but the more I got to looking around and investigating what exactly was being said about me by inklane and to whom she was saying it to, as well as who else who doesn't even know me and was only taking her side without looking at the whole of the issue was saying ... I got even more pissed than I thought I was. So, you think it over, and let me know what you think.
Because, this has really thrown me for a mother frakkin' loop.
Edit #01: Because I felt like the Clark/Lois community in the Smallville fandom needed to know this I'm going to be posting two more links regarding inklane and another incident that happened with her and nyonyo thanks to my awesome friend mojotastic providing me with the links and the background information to fill in the blanks. Now, I want to make it clear that I'm not bad mouthing inklane and I'm not saying anything about her that isn't true and isn't documented in these two posts, complete with screencaps just to illustrate the point and provide the evidence.
Identity Theft Take One
Identity Theft Take Two, Please
I have to say that I find it rather funny that the Chloe Mafia was born, by way of her identity jacking nyonyo. Oh the lulz found in that one. But, really I think I'm more frustrated with the fact that she was the one who pretty much stalked this poor girl, copied her in every which way possible, and then created a community that's painfully patterened after the one that she (nyonyo created for Chlark fans). And if that isn't bad enough, she cried wolf to the Clark/Lois community saying that the big bad ol' Chloe Mafia had come after her, when before she had de-friended me I had checked the post and not one single comment from a Chloe fan was left on it BEFORE she flocked everything where you couldn't see it. Nobody stepped to her and asked her to stop anything, nobody threatened her, nobody from that side of the fence even trolled her journal. So, I find this repugnant and completely disgusting.
And I just wanted you guys to know what's going on here. Sometimes people were two faces, the one they keep in the dark and the one they show to the world. This girl acted like my friend, got pissed off about a misunderstand and without giving me a chance to explain it went and bad mouthed me to her friends behind my back where she KNEW I would actually see it, and then de-friended me on livejournal all the while telling me that she thought I was still a nice person, she hoped we could be friends but just not on each other's f-list, and then she's telling everyone else how I make her feel umcomfortable on livejournal and she feels like she can't say what she thinks in her journal.
Hell, half of the time what she has to say on her journal someone else has already said, pretty much. So, you look over those two posts that I linked to and you decide what you want to believe. I'm not going to try and influence you, the only thing I'm trying to do is provide you with the facts. It's up to you, what you do next.
Edit #02: Thanks to apeygirl shedding some light on this and nyonyo getting this screencap from a friend; here is yet another one of the rumors that inklane has been involved in and or possibly started. Though, I guess I should point out, that it's not necessarily certain whether or not she had started it or she was being genuine in her comment to Craig who had every right to ask her to please refrain from putting words in his mouth or implicating him in anything, it's still another thing in the list of thing's she's been up to.
The bottom line is that she supposedly spread around a rumor stating that Chloisers/Chlarker's had entered a Clois chat and had given them a virus somehow, then went so far as to make a post/comment about it saying that Craig had confirmed it was them, back peddaled on everything that she said and told him that someone at DI had told her that and she wasn't trying to start anything, then once again played the victim "poor pitiful woe is me everyone is attacking me and I don't know why" card.
Ouch, mommy this wound is all itchy. lulz. Somebody tattled on me, because I knew it would be a matter of time. Gotta love it. What puts me away, is that she's probably talking up a storm about me, this post, and anything else that has had to do with this whole incident. Not to mention, changing the privacy status on her Twitter to "protected friend's only" status makes her look even more guilty of talking about me behind my back. I'm actually pretty glad that I went ahead and transcribed what was already said to begin with and have kept a fairly decent log of it, otherwise my side might have never really gotten the chance to be fully stated.
Thank you guys for all of your wonderful support, I really do appreciate it more than you realize. It's very important for me to state as a Clark/Lois fangirl and shipper and a fangirl of Lois in general, that not all of us are crazy and some of us are actually pretty much made of awesomesauce. lol. We don't all hate Chloe, we're not all afeared of the Chloe Mafia to come chargin' through our doors at unknown hours of the night, and we're most certainly not backbiter's who're just makin' jabs at the other side of the fence for no reasons at all.
It's fandom people, it's supposed to be FUN. So, why don't we stop all of this NONSENSE and get back to it, right?!
An' I suppose I could tell you how I feel;; - Post a comment
Well, that moment was magic, it was so surreal;;
18 February 2010 @ 02:15 pm
Current Location: ++my bedroom sitting on my bed;;
Current Mood: pissed off
Current Music: ++general hospital;;