I love fandom. I really do.
I've been in fandom a long time and I've seen a lot of crazy stuff happen. I'm also a member of fandom_wank so I've watched from a distance as plenty more crazy stuff happened in fandoms that weren't mine.
There are crazy people in every fandom. There's always one who takes it too far. One whose obsession borders on frightening. One who thinks they're best friends with a particular cast member because they follow them to every public appearance ever. One or two who like to act as though they personally should be in charge of the careers of their favourite actor/musician/writer/etc because their sheer adoration for them is proof that they know better than any of the people who do this kind of thing for a living. One or two who you know are just in it to stir up wank. There's always a few who you can't help thinking fandom would be a nicer place without. But that's fandom, that's life in fact. Look around your work or your school, there are a few odd people there too who you're not that keen on. It's the diversity that keeps life and fandom interesting.
So when I say this don't think I'm naive or have forgotten that the internet is made up of crazy people who can't behave themselves.
I am honestly incredibly ashamed of Torchwood fandom right now.
As if the threats and the discussion of how to best behave like a spoilt brat with a ridiculous sense of entitlement towards RTD at comic con,
( COE spoiler ) weren't bad enough, we now have people abusing James Moran on twitter.
Get a grip people. Get a life.