here's a disclaimer. this whole thing, probably won't make any sense.
have you ever just gone with the flow cause you didn't know what else to do? and you didn't want a situation to get out of hand, so you just let it go on for so long? my eyes were opened up last night. i was told you can't let something you don't want to happen go on for so long. things can only get a whole lot worse, and a whole lot messier. but how do you get out of the flow? have you ever made a whirlpool? you want it to be so strong and hard to break, but it's really not that difficult. you just think its gonna be hard, and you get a little sad because all of your hard work had just been wasted. but yet your day of swimming goes on. you move on to bigger and better pool activities. situations get complicated. sometimes you make them worse, sometimes not. it just all depends on you, and what you want to do about it. no one else can truly tell you what to think or what to do. the whole thing is your decision. you can't just change who you are for someone else. remember that.