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User:weddingplans (posted by funnibunni80)
Date:2013-05-20 09:55
Subject:Ranting about MIL et al
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Mood: depressed

Sorry for the negative post... *sigh*  It's just really bothering me today.  A lot.
Backstory and the problem. Here lies the rant...Collapse )

Thanks for letting me rant.  I feel a little better.  If you want to throw me any advice, I'd love to hear it...

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User:weddingplans (posted by cazz)
Date:2013-05-20 15:11
Subject:Progress post and a seating-nightmare....
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So, we got engaged almost a year ago (June 3rd) and progress has been slowly mostly due to the fact that my FH almost immediately got sent to Madagascar with work, then got a new job based in Kenya, I eventually joined him in Zambia and then a month ago he got made redundant. So, it's been a funny old time. We did set the date though! August 16th 2014.... yey!

Anywho, in the midst of all that international madness, I found the dress!  A lot of bridal shops in the UK don't let you take pictures (the place I went actually took our phones and put them in a little basket) but I found some stock photos - TADA!

Let the pretty begin......Collapse )

Giant, enormous negative/problem - head table seating.

So, we both have parents who are divorced and it has been made perfectly clear that neither of our sets of parents can be seated anywhere near each other. Quite literally. They need to be on opposite sides of the room.
This is not in itself a problem and they are all aware that there will be no parents at the head table. The problem lies in the fact that we each have 5 bridesmaids/groomsmen and they all have partners.... is it totally unfair to separate BM/GM from their partners at the wedding? We can't possible have a head table with 22 people on it and we don't want a sweetheart table; any suggestions?!

Thanks for reading!

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-20 00:00
Subject:coalesce: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/20.html?src=rss

coalesce: to blend or come together.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-19 00:00
Subject:darg: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/19.html?src=rss

darg: a day's work.

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User:weddingplans (posted by funnibunni80)
Date:2013-05-18 07:08
Subject:Under the Dress - Naughty or Nice?
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Quite some time ago, I went shopping for the outfit I was going to wear for our engagement photos.

(Okay, little braggy moment...  The jeweler who made my ring asked us to take a engagement photo, so he could use us on his billboard.  How awesome is that???  It should be up early next week, so crazy excited to see it!!!)

Anyways... (sorry, lol) so my fiance decided to come along and help me choose said outfit.  Found something super cute, but while we were there, he kept eyeing this mannequin rockin' a sexy red/black bra/garter belt lace skirt.  Caught that hint, hard to miss.  :)  So I went back not too much later and picked up the combo.  Did a test in the dress, absolutely nothing shows (I was a little worried about the bodice) so I thought, wouldn't it be fun to wear it during the wedding, for him to KNOW I'm wearing it, and well, yeah.  :)  My red-accented dress has a very full skirt, with my shoes (which are fantastic red pumps, BTW) only occasionally making an appearance.   We aren't allowed to have a garter toss (for reasons I have yet to discover) so I don't see any reason to hike my dress up.

So here's my question.  Said naughty combo is meant to be worn with black thigh-highs.  While being a little naughty under the dress makes me feel deliciously wicked, I'm less certain about being naughty all the way to my toes... (shoes are close-toed, BTW)  White is absolutely out of the question (I think that would look ghastly.) So the question is a sheer black, or a sheer nude.  What do you brides think?  Be deliciously wicked all the way to my toes?  Or play it a little safe, so I don't end up the blushing bride all night?

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-18 00:00
Subject:consortium: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/18.html?src=rss

consortium: any association, partnership, or union.

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User:weddingplans (posted by marissasucks)
Date:2013-05-17 13:34
Subject:Customized music
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I was talking with a friend about weddings, and he me if I thought there was a market for customized music--sort of like having a signature cocktail. I gave him my answer but I obviously can't speak for anyone else.
I figured why not see what WP has to say?Collapse )

Thanks so much! I'm curious to see what people have to say. I haven't heard of anyone doing this already, but I might just be out of touch.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-17 00:00
Subject:motza: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/17.html?src=rss

motza: a large amount of money, especially a sum won in gambling.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-16 00:00
Subject:allochthonous: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/16.html?src=rss

allochthonous: not formed in the region where found.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-15 00:00
Subject:circadian: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/15.html?src=rss

circadian: noting or pertaining to rhythmic biological cycles recurring at approximately 24-hour intervals.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-14 00:00
Subject:quacksalver: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/14.html?src=rss

quacksalver: a charlatan.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-13 00:00
Subject:melliferous: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/13.html?src=rss

melliferous: yielding or producing honey.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-12 00:00
Subject:feminacy: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/12.html?src=rss

feminacy: feminine nature.

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User:weddingplans (posted by lucidxlunacy)
Date:2013-05-11 10:16
Subject:Changing Engagement Ring
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After a lot of small discussions along the way about how I find my engagement ring challenging, my fiance and I finally had the big discussion about just changing it. I still feel a small twinge of regret due to some emotional attachment to the ring he proposed with, but I will be keeping the stone (which is EXACTLY what I wanted), just not the band (which is NOTHING like what I wanted). We both think getting over this small regret will be easier in the long run than the regret of wearing something forever that I really don't like.

So, now that the emotional piece is settled, I'm wondering about the financial piece. He had the band custom designed for me so I'm afraid this won't be quite as simple as just resetting, but it could be that I just haven't found any good resources on the matter. Does anyone have any experience with this and could give me some advice or resources on how to approximate the cost?

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-11 00:00
Subject:snafu: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/11.html?src=rss

snafu: a badly confused or ridiculously muddled situation.

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-10 00:00
Subject:aeolian: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/10.html?src=rss

aeolian: of or caused by the wind; wind-blown.

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User:weddingplans (posted by ogseesfy)
Date:2013-05-10 14:10
Subject:Bridal Hair Accessories Photos
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READ MORE......

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User:weddingplans (posted by offcourse)
Date:2013-05-09 13:17
Subject:Separate Reception
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I will be getting married in late September, and I'm at a loss at how to plan our reception/celebration. (It will probably be at a small rented place or my parents house & backyard.) If anyone has any advice, I'd really appreciate it!

1. Our wedding will be in Hawaii (only my immediate family in attendance), and our reception will be in our home city (just under 50 friends and family). How do I handle the lapse of time and lack of ceremony? I want to have a table with a few of our wedding pictures for people to see. Obviously no wedding dress, but should I wear something white/frilly/formal, or unrelated? Should we still make a registry, or is that in bad taste?

2. My fiance and I are both non-dancers, so aside from music playing, there wont be any formal dancing or anything. All I can think of for the reception, is: appetizers, greeting/mingling, cocktails, dinner, toast/thanks, cake. I'm worried people will be bored.

Thanks! :)

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User:dictionary_wotd
Date:2013-05-09 00:00
Subject:whangdoodle: Dictionary.com Word of the Day
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http://www.dictionary.com/wordoftheday/archive/2013/05/09.html?src=rss

whangdoodle: a fanciful creature of undefined nature.

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User:weddingplans (posted by bouncingsquares)
Date:2013-05-08 17:49
Subject:announcements
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So I have a HUGE extended family - I'm talking well over 100 people. We have four generations who all keep in touch fairly well. We have a facebook group and a family website. Yeah, we're weird, but that's beside the point. I cannot invite everyone to my wedding, and even if I could, they wouldn't all be able to come. Everyone understands this, and it's common practice in my family to send out announcements after the wedding to everyone who wasn't invited. Since I've been grown and moved out, I haven't seen any of these announcements in a long time because they just get sent to my mother, not to me, and I don't think anyone has gotten married in awhile anyway.
I assumed the announcement should have a photo of us at the wedding. However, both of the planning checklists I'm using say you should mail your announcements the day after your wedding. This means they would already have to be printed, addressed, and ready to go before the wedding, thus canceling out any possibility of using a photo from the wedding. I know it's obviously up to me, I'm just curious what's more common - to use another picture, maybe from the engagement shoot to get the announcements out as quickly as possible, or to wait until you get your photos back to make and send out announcements?

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