ola! [11 Oct 2008|03:33pm] jr__nal [syringe1901] [ mood | bouncy ] I haven't posted here in ages (a year or so to be exact) some drawings: ( Plumbums! O_o ) 42 | eat me out

It has been a long long time since my last post. [10 Oct 2008|10:50pm] jr__nal [vaguemotives] And I swear I have missed you all very dearly. I only have one for now. But I will be back with more. I promise. For real this time. cross-posted to embodiment 13 | eat me out

Smelly taint problems [09 Oct 2008|08:10pm] sextips [katyism] I know it can feel great to a guy when you massage or play with his perineum area (the taint), and so I've done it more lately. But with my guy, there's, um, a smell. Like he hasn't wiped his ass properly and never cleans behind his balls. The smell gets on my fingers and in the air and to be quite honest that almost inevitably ruins the mood for me, so I don't do him this favor as often as he deserves. (He's all about my ass all the time and I love it... but please note we have not graduated to actual full on anal sex yet) It's severely limiting things I could do to him orally, too, that I know he would love. Yeah, I know it's something that I will have to address with open communication and all that. Or clever little hygiene suggestions... And no, we cannot have an erotic shower together. I have a tiny little shower stall and we are both large-ish people. But before I do that, I wanted to ask some things... 1.) Is this a common thing that has to do with just getting over the smell and diving in? Or does it suggest he really might have a hygiene problem? 2.) How can I possibly be polite about this? I know my ass doesn't smell like roses, either, but if it bothers him he sure doesn't let it get in the way of pleasing me. 3.) Help? Pleeeez? 30 | eat me out

Help, weird encounter. [09 Oct 2008|11:33pm] sextips [baby_imbadnewss] Okay so, I recently hooked up with this guy with whom I've had a lot of drama. Long story short, I liked him, he liked me... a lot of drama ensued, he  doesn't have feelings for me anymore (not sure if I do either) and now we're not really anything. However, we do have a lot of phone/text sex and recently decided that we wanted to get things out of our systems.  I went to his place with the idea that this was a hookup. Nothing more than that. I expected things to get down and dirty. Instead there was a high level of intimacy that threw me off. He kissed the top of my head, kissed my nose about fifty-zilion times, held and kissed my hands and woke up saying things like "who would have thought". To me, I would think that men have two different sexual personas: one for lovemaking and one for just fucking... and it threw me off that he behaved so intimately. My first question is, am I right in thinking that there are two sexual personas or could this whole sweet-intimate thing be this guy's M.O. My second question is much more confusing. He never let me touch his member. Not once. I would move my hand down over his pants and he would just move my hand away. He insisted on going down on me the whole night (no complaints here), but whenever I wanted to touch him, he wouldn't let me. My roommates insist he has a small dick. I've been with guys who have smaller penises and that never posed a problem. Could this guy have ED? He is only 20 years old. Could he have felt embarrassed or something else entirely that I am not even aware of. If ED is the case, is there anything I could possibly do to stimulate him and make a future encounter enjoyable for him? Thanks. 14 | eat me out

Spags Lunch [11 Oct 2008|02:51am] jr__nal [handmadelove] xxx! 1 | eat me out

[10 Oct 2008|12:36am] sextips [kalifornia] Do you think it is possible to be a sex addict without it necessarily affecting your life significantly? Like.... if you keep having sex for all the wrong reasons.  And you feel horrible afterward.... But you do it again the next time? I've always had low self-esteem, and it's stemmed from being severly made fun of as a child, to the point where daily people were telling me to kill myself so they wouldn't have to look at me.  Now, I think I use sex as a way to feel better about myself.  I'm not promiscuous by any means.  But I do have sex with people I don't care about (fuck buddies and the such) and while I never get anything out of it physically, I feel numb from my insecurities at least in the moment I'm doing it. Afterward, because they're just fuck buddies, we both roll over and talk for a bit, and one of us leaves.  Then I usually feel terribly about myself. It's gotten to the point where I've been having sex with an ex boyfriend.  I always initiate, and he gives in, but it's not an intimate encounter.  It's usually just me on top, and it's like jacking off with a person, if that makes sense.  It usually takes a lot of persuasion on my part, and like I said, it's just me jacking him off with my vagina essentially.   And I feel so pathetic afterward, because I know it's not rape, but I know he just wants to be friends, and the only reason he gives in is because I try SO hard. I just keep trying and trying for that moment of numbness.  Where I am not the fat ugly girl, but the girl bringing someone else pleasure.  As long as I'm being careful, do you think this is a good enough reason to have sex?  Do any of you empathize?  How did you get over equating sex with affection and caring? 22 | eat me out

needle through a bug [10 Oct 2008|03:37am] jr__nal [hercoffin] digital journals: ( the month of october (so far) ) 20 | eat me out

The Friday Five for 10 October 2008... [09 Oct 2008|07:33pm] thefridayfive [ariestess] [ mood | amused ] This week's questions are brought to you courtesy of an anonymous reader, the letter F, and the number 5... What is the one most important thing by your side right now? Why is it so important? Can you live without it? What is the one thing you can't live without? Who is the one person you can't live without? (sic) Copy and paste to your own journal, then reply to this post with a link to your answers. If you'd like to suggest questions for a future Friday Five, then do so here: http://www.livejournal.com/community/thefridayfive/1466.html Old sets that were used have been deleted, so please feel free to suggest some more! Remember that we rely on you, our members, to help keep the community going. 25 | eat me out

six word memoirs [09 Oct 2008|10:02pm] jr__nal [latchkey_kids] i'm working off this concept of describing parts of my life in six word increments. it's not particularly stunning or anything, but it's my first year of college and the journal is already starting to show me changing. from who i like to who i hang out with, and even some jokes from classes, i guess it's going to take me through at least this year (and yes, of course, most of it does deal with boys.) ( and other tales ) 35 | eat me out

Menthol Blow Job? [09 Oct 2008|12:55am] sextips [partyyypartyyy] [ mood | curious ] I saw on a TV show a few years ago talk of going down on a guy with a menthol cough drop in your mouth. Has anyone tried this? Thoughts? My boyfriend enjoys anything with my mouth being cold & this memory popped into my head, so I was curious as to how others felt about it. 10 | eat me out

Oral after Anal [09 Oct 2008|05:20pm] sextips [justmatisse] At first, I thought oral after anal was icky and probably dangerous. But I've seen videos where a girl suck the guy's dick after it's been in her ass, and it really turns me on. I'd love to do this with my boyfriend, but is there any reason why I really just *shouldn't* at all? Like will I get violently sick? Has anyone else done this? I mean this is assuming that when he pulls out of my ass there isn't any fecal residue on it. I tried looking this up on yahoo and google, but of course, it just came up with tons of porn results. 13 | eat me out

Issues w/ touching self during sex [09 Oct 2008|05:54pm] sextips [sour_candy] I often hear women in here advising others to manually stimulate their clitoris during sex. What is the best way to go about doing this? Whenever I go to rub it, I end up accidentally scratching my boyfriend's penis with my nails or losing the rhythm. As I can only orgasm via clitoral stimulation, I would appreciate some tips... thanks! ETA: I should also add that I have, erm, mental issues associated with playing with myself during sex. For one, I find it hard to focus on him *and* myself simultaneously; partly I feel that if I want to masturbate, I can do it on my own. Also, having both active and passive stimulation feels odd to me. However, I would love, love, love to be able to come during sex, and seeing me play with myself really turns my boyfriend on. Any suggestions on getting over the issues I have with it? 17 | eat me out

[09 Oct 2008|11:05pm] jr__nal [lastmetro] ( Just One ) 12 | eat me out

Dear Someone [09 Oct 2008|05:51pm] jr__nal [creativewebs]  Hi I was just wondering if anyone would like to be part of a project I created called 'Dear Someone'. Basically it is  to turn something you want to say to the world into a piece of art and submit it to be displayed on the Dear Someone site.   Get it off your chest! Be part of the ‘Dear Someone’ project… 1. Write your message (please try to limit to one sentence if possible) in an inventive/creative way - make it part of a piece of art, write it on a polaroid, the back of a postcard, on a wall, on yourself…just be creative 2. Submit your art! Scan/take a photo of your creation and send it to: dearsome1@gmail.com FIND OUT MORE AT: www.dearsome1.wordpress.com 19 | eat me out

30 sketch journal pages [09 Oct 2008|11:02am] jr__nal [mynameisbritta] [ mood | amused ] [ music | aesop rock ] Hello all, I made these sketch journal pages from July till recently. 1. ( 30 sketch journal pages ) 53 | eat me out

[09 Oct 2008|08:02am] 0003590 I have mono. Fuck this I want strep throat back! 6 | eat me out

[08 Oct 2008|10:33pm] jr__nal [inanimatelove] 1 | eat me out

kegels :D [07 Oct 2008|02:38pm] sextips [tashiri_410] hey there. i looked up http://www.geocities.com/steve4502/vagex.html and the memories, and i found some info but here's a question that's been bugging me for a while. i can do the tense-up-like-i'm-holding-back-pee thing easy, clearly, and it even gets me a little wet and turned on, which i hear is a good thing. my question is, how tense should the muscles be? because it feels TOO easy to just tense and relax the way i'm doing it. should i be tensing (it feels like pulling something inwards and upwards towards my stomach) until i feel a weird sensation around the base of my stomach and my ass is all clenched up? hope this makes sense :( 7 | eat me out

[05 Oct 2008|10:39pm] sextips [herscientist] I really, really need some help! Please be as descriptive and detailed as possible. I love sex, I mean.. who in here doesn't. But I don't think I've ever had an orgasm from it. I've been reading some entries in here, and people have been saying that clitoral orgasms don't match to g-spot orgasms.. or all in all, orgasms from sex. I can't really tell if my boyfriend, Nile, has given me an orgasm or not. I mean, shit, it feels good, he's doing his job.. so I think maybe it's me that can't get it right. It's usually when he's on top with my legs wrapped around his head that things start getting really great. I'll even stimulate the clit. Everything gets really overwhelming and my legs start to shake, sometimes I feel like I even might be. It just feels like I'm chasing, and I'm chasing, and chasing.. but then usually nothing comes or he'll change positions on me. So please, please tell me any ideas/thoughts/things I should do to help finally reach that so sought after, mind-blowing orgasm. Because I know I've been close, so how do I get to the finish line? Suggestions on things I can do to help it, or maybe things he could do would be sooo helpful. 5 | eat me out

Dirty-ER sex?! [08 Oct 2008|05:43pm] sextips [grey_stripes] [ mood | horny ] New poster here! I've read a lot of the memories and nothing quuuite answered my exact question, or so I felt. My boyfriend just turned 23, and I'm trying to plan a birthday sexing for him. The problem is, the dirtier it is the more he loves it, but I'm at a loss as to how to spice up our normal 'dirty' sex. Here's what I have so far: I usually tie up both his hands and his feet, blindfold him, talk dirty about the act itself as well as both of our sexy bits, put porn on, and the last time I really tried to go all out it ended with me-on-top anal. What else can I do besides the above?! Help me make dirty sex even dirtier! He doesn't like pain, and the only other things I can think of are maybe some kind of verbal abuse? Like being more mean than usual. Any help would be very appreciated! 11 | eat me out

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