I give you MemeLand (thanks to
If anyone wants to know what the tool does - it basically produces a version of your friends list which is easy to copy/paste into a lj entry. So for instance I can get a list of everyone I've friended who hasn't friended me back:
This list was generated using LJFriends.
If you're on that list and are reading this I would appreciate getting friended back, but having had a quick glance through that list there's no-one I would defriend for not friending me back.