It sounds almost to odd? I'd have to agree with you that he's hiding because of the lawsuit. I'm glad to see though at least on slanderous libel fruitcake is making it to a court system.

Yeah, I know the funeral home is real, but I wouldn't think they would even give out personal info like that.
Might try it though.

so this micheal guy was really 48? jesus! thats really sad. i wonder if he had any family or anything....he could of just started a new journal.....get any new friends lately? and who is annoymous that keeps posting comments? something still feels weird to me.

i wasnt logged in. arg. anyways, yea that was me^^

The first anon posting is a friend I met on IMDB who was posting there when Pardo started all his insanity. She/He didn't want to post under a screen name so Pardo wouldn't troll their journals too.

The other anon is supposed to be Pardo's Boss?? Still don't know if I buy that or not. I know its confusing since they are both posting anonymous.
Pardo admitted he lived with his father. It's odd that he did't know he was dead for three days.
Other than this person claiming to be Pardo's friend I haven't picked up any new friends.

i think its pardo. i mean, his boss cares enough about him too look on his site and find you? nah. plus he was such a good person and blah blah blah! come one. not one bad thing about the man. i think its just a little suspicious. but, eh, thats me.

Hey Girlly, this is the response I got from the funeral home when I sent an email asking about services for Pardo. (And no, this isn't made up)


"Hello:

Yes, we buried Mr. Pardo. If you would like to send a condolence, his father is Carl Pardo and he lives in Morganville, NJ or, send to me at the funeral home and I will see that he gets it: Freeman Manalapan-Marlboro Funeral Home, 344 Route 9 North, Manalapan, NJ 07726. Thank you. Ann"

So... there it is.

OK ...thanks.

I certainly wasn't meaning it to be a "ding dong the witch is dead" kinda post either. I don't enjoy hearing about anyone dying, but at the same time I can't help but think this was a disaster waiting to happen.

Now I think that the celebrities he stalked will be safer. In the end that's what I think is most important. I just hope Trevor and Hayden hear about this. (Or at the very least the agencies that handle them.)

You had emailed one of the guys in staylefish right? Maybe you should pass on this information. Although if their lawyers were getting involved they may have found out already.

I don't think you came off that way. I think most people are trying to show restraint and be respectful even though he may not have really deserved it. But that's what decent people would do. No one wants to rub salt in the wound of any friend or family that might see this.
I wiil email Chad and let him know. Although I know Trevor's people were having Pardo investigated so they probably already know. I'm sure Trevor is breathing a sigh of relief and nobody can blame him for that.
Did you see Pardo's friend say he carried a picture of Trevor in his wallet and would pull it out and show it to people as "his son"....creepy.

So I got a reply from the funeral home as well. Pretty much the same thing jjathome posted. I guess he did die.
I'm not out to dance on his grave or anything, but I am happy he can't ruin innocent peoples lives anymore and everyone who had set out to sue him will save tons of money on legal fees now. I am a little disapointed that this guy never had to face his day in court over all the horrible things he did, but the world has its own way of balancing itself out sometimes.

Wow! I guess I'm in shock. Hollywood will sleep sound knowing this man won't bother them again but yet I feel sad for his family.

Yeah, I feel bad for his family. I'm sure they've been through a lot in there life when it comes to him.
But I am relieved we don't have to worry now about reading one day how this guy snapped and killed Trevor Bumas. I'm sure Trevor feels a lot safer now.

i wonder how he died. 48 is pretty young.

Well, his friend said there was an autopsy, but didn't know the details.
I know he told a couple of people he had aids and knew he was dying. He had some big plan as his dying with to track Trevor Blumas and tell him love him.
But who knows what was true when it came to this guy.

i got this abuse thing from lj saying ive spammed. :( made me super sad. i think im gonna cry. (im super-emotional right now)

yea thats me i keep forgetting to login

What? Why?
Who reported you?

not sure. i commented on a few peoples journals about joining this dominic monaghan community i started and apparently they got mad. i went through all the people i commented too and some had delted the comment and if they hadnt i delted it for them. i hate people sometimes. i even wrote at the bottom of the comment that they didnt have too. the way the email lj sent me sounded, i had put a gun to their heads. arg.

Oh, don't worry about it. Some people get so pissy for no good reason. That nutjob used to report me for something once a day LOL!
Wasn't very nice of them though. I wouldn't call it spam unless someone posted the same thing over and over.
Did they tell you who reported you? If their user info doesn't say you're not allowed to promote communities then you did'nt do anything wrong.

i looked. i went through probably 10 journals, and calmly read everything. it took me an hour! but hard work gets repayed with meaness. they didnt tell me who did it but i sent an apology to lj. i like this site to much to get banned from it.

They won't supspend you that easy. Pardo had to complain on me a zillion times and then eventually make some crap up before they suspended me.
And if that happens you can just make a new journal and add your friends back like I did.

good idea. what if they ban the....ya know, the computer address? i only have one computer. but you said it took them a while, so im not completly worried right now.

I think you have to be a crazy repeat offender before they ban your IP address. I've never talked to anyone who have been IP banned.

Just thought I would post this... I haven't found any obits yet for Pardo, but I found a site that compiles obits from around the country with an easy search engine.

http://www.legacy.com/Legacy.asp

I keep checking, but nothing has cropped up. Although if the local paper requires people pay for an obit I don't really think there will ever be one.

I was considering trying to get in touch with the agency in california just to make sure they know about this. I'm sure by now they have heard, but... I suppose I am looking for closure on all fronts. I want to see something about the autoposy results, or an obit... plus I would like to know that Trevor at least has been told that the whole thing is over. Maybe I'm just going overboard? I just can't get some of the naggy questions out of my head ya know?

Oh, and btw I am Senseijj over on IMDB, as well as the "anonymous" poster on your GJ who kept asking questions of his boss. In fact I only created an account on LJ to be able to post in areas he frequented.

I don't think you're going overboard. I'd be really interested in hearing what they say. Plus, there is the chance they don't know any of this is going on. If he is dead and they know about it you think Trevor would want to make some kind of official statement letting his fans know all this is over. I assume they will still have to take some legal measures to get his pages about Trevor taken down.

I found all kinds of death search sites from NJ and even social security death lists and he hasn't shown up on any of them. In our local paper you have to pay for an enhanced obit, but they will still just list the name and date of any state deaths in another section. You'd think NJ would do something like that too.

I'm with you on the "nagging questions" too. Lots of things make me think he actually is dead. I mean, I was even pondering it before his boss showed up to tell us that. But that in itself makes me suspicious too. Here I am saying that and someone shows up to say "oh yeah he is dead".
The funeral home did reply that they buried him, but the reply was not what I expected. It was short and unprofessional. There have been a few other things too, but I hate to start rambling and sound paranoid and end up like Pardo LOL!

Let me know if you get any info from Trevor's agency!

Have you heard anything else?

WOW...that was...WOW. Though I am with you, I don't want to jump to any conclusions. Maybe Pardo paid the Funeral Homes to say that he's dead? He's crazy...and he could pull of a lot of stunts with just one snap.

Though I am thankful that he will not bother anyone anymore. I am relieved that he's quite (for now, I guess). Hayden and Trevor suffered so much of their dignity. Whenever I talk about them with my friends, they always say that their faggots and all that. It's depressing to hear people talk about these great actors like trash just because an obssessed freak kept telling lies.

Anyway, I do hope he finds peace, if he's really dead. I hope somehow he had leanred something from his experiece. Hehehe >:)

where are you chicky? havent heard from you in a while...

I've been on vacation at the beach livivng the good life!!
I'm back now, but I've been really busy the start of the week trying to catch up on everything that piled up while I was gone.
Bleh, I wonder why I take vacations sometimes. There's just two weeks worth of stuff to come home to.
And I'm gettting my little girl ready for her first year of pre-school which is making me a nervous wreck! She's my one and only so I haven't done this before.

aww! my mother didnt let me go to headstart of kindergarden. she wanted to homeschool me lol. my mammaw had to talk her out of it. i was her first baby. im sure she'll be scared her first couple of days....no mommy and all, but later on, youll be eager to get her off to school just for some peace and quite lol.

and she'll be eager to get to her new friends.

It's been awhile since I posted, sorry. I did another search recently at www.legacy.com. If you do a normal search there is no 'obit' for michael.

However... when the search results come up, you can click on the tab named "Social Security Death Index Results" and you get the following result....

"PARDO, MICHAEL J. Jul 21, 1956 Jul 18, 2005
Last residence: 07751 (Morganville, Monmouth, NJ) "

So they have a record of his death certificate even if there was never a newspaper obit. Don't know about anyone else, but this was a relief to me. I can finally let go of the whole messy business.

hey you. you havent been online in almost 3 months...where are you??
i know your not the expert but i remember you got your account suspended because of that one dude. so yea. this chick left me this link from LJ abuse http://www.livejournal.com/community/lj_abuse/2647623.html but when i replied, her account was suspended. whats that about? idk if that link works, it wouldnt for me. do you know what im talking about at all? lol.
and get online! i miss talknig to my crazy friend.

hey update!!

Update?
Well, he's still dead LOL!
Seriously his name shows up in the social sec death index now, so he really is dead.
His employer showed up a couple of more times on another journal of mine and some loser was trying to impersonate him on IMDB, but other than that it's been pretty quiet when it comes to him. It's not like he had any followers who are rambling to carry on his torch or anything.

no you update lol

Oh! LOL!
This is kind of an update.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/girlglowstoxic/18755.html?thread=141635#t141635

blah, I wouldn't know where to start with all the crazy crap that's been going on with my life lately.
I sound like such a drama queen ;)