+ _ensoleille . heaven can wait

friends cut

Sun, 23 Apr 2006 07:16:10 GMT

[mood| sad]
[music| tears & rain - james blunt ]

I really hate to do this. But I've decided that I only want people on my f-list that are actually there or that I feel a connection to - otherwise I'm not interested. I'm sorry to these people, I've been friends with some of them for so long, but at times when I comment on their posts I get one-word answers or they never make an effort to talk to me. I'm not blaming anybody, this is just how I feel. If you want to know the reason why I cut you personally, comment and ask - all comments are screened. Otherwise, I hope everything goes well for you.♥ Beau.

abilizersparkle
agguss
blanek
blood_red_quill
charmingeyes
ickleem
morikumo_js12
mouseygirl512
pinksunryse
souredpoison

if you're in the harry potter fandom please read!

Sat, 11 Mar 2006 01:11:38 GMT

If you're interested in harry potter or involved in the fandom in anyway, please help me.
So it's overused, but I was thinking of starting up a Harry Potter icon stillness community. The thing is, I don't want it to be of HP icons in general, I'd prefer an actual couple/theme/etc. If I was a paid account user I would use a poll but I'm not so I'll have to do it the old-fashioned way. ;) Please do me a favour and vote for one of the following in a comment; you can just type a number or the actual couple/theme/etc. Since almost everybody on my f-list likes HP in some way, I hope they'll be a lot of replies!

[1] Ron//Hermione.
[2] HP couples in general.
[3] The Trio.
[4] Goblet of Fire movie.
[5] Themes.*

*What I mean for this one is, that every week I'll post a theme and members will have to make an icon of any HP movie scene or character that relates somehow to the theme. Some examples of themes could be colours, emotions, objects or ideas [such as magic or something].

The first three are probably a little overused but they sound really fun. But I also really like the last two, they're a little more original. ^^

I am also looking for a co-mod. Now I haven't actually started the community since I'm waiting for some of your opinions, but what I'll do is ask you to reply to this post with one of the above stillness community ideas, and if you're also interested in being a co-mod, tell me so in the same comment as your vote. Let me know how much time you have and if you have any experience in mod-ing/co-moding communities.

This is really really important to me, so please please comment! ♥

HELP!!

Mon, 13 Feb 2006 18:26:15 GMT

Well I'm confused. Can anyone help me out?
At narnia_elite I've made it so that anyone can join and become a member, but I have to grant them posting access. The thing is, what is the difference between "watching" a community and being a member of it? Example: ronniekins77 and a few others have been granted posting access by me yet they dpn't appear to be members yet. On the Invitations page it seems as though I have given them invitations to join the comm or something but they haven't got it. First-time mod-ing is confusing. Can anyone who mods a community help me out? Cause I can't figure out if it's my fault they're not a member or if they just haven't become a member through something they haven't done yet.

JOIN JOIN JOIN!

Sun, 12 Feb 2006 18:26:22 GMT

Please join narnia_elite!
Or at least tell me what you think of it. Do you like the pretteh layout? ^^

+ friends cut

Sat, 11 Feb 2006 09:17:32 GMT

Eurgh I hate doing this. Right before my birthday as well. :/ I'd like to apologise in advance, but I hope you'll understand. The explanation is under the cut.

+ __headcase
+ hannio24
+ lavenderdouglas
+ misty_mars
+ elapses
+ gifted_dream
+ ellipsisblack
+ spidermonkey367

Again, I am really sorry to do this, but from now on I'm only interested in improving my friendships on LJ. If you're cut here will be one of the reasons why =
[1] you have totally disappeared from LJ, or only reappear now and then to say hello and go off again. I probably still really like you but you're just never there.
[2] we've grown apart. We never really talk anymore.
[3] i'm just not interested in you, or I have no idea who you are.
[4] you never comment on my posts. Ever. So how do I know you actually want to become better friends with me? This is probably one of the biggest cutting factors, as well as the never updating thing.

If you really do want to be friended again, comment and tell me why. I'll consider it, but only ask if you want to work at the friendship. Otherwise, please don't bother. The best of luck for all of you. ♥

Friends Only

Sun, 16 Oct 2005 03:08:31 GMT

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first + introduce yourself. how am i suppose to friend you if i don't know who you are?
second + tell me your interests. yes it's overdone but it's important that i know what you like/dislike.
third + establish one thing we have in common. if there's nothing then don't bother friending me; we'd have nothing to talk about.
fourth + if you don't comment on any of my entries for a month or so I'll be defriending you. I'm so sick of always friending losers who reply when I comment to their posts but can never seem to be bothered being interested in my life as well. this is a big one - people who never comment really get on my nerves. it's also more likely i'll friend you if i've seen you around lj, for instance at one of my communities.
fifth + don't friend this journal for my icons. go to my icon journal instead, hourglass_icons.
sixth + if i like you, i'll consider letting you in.

♥ _ensoleille