[May0513] thequestionclub [atheistkathleen] what should i say to my aunt about not going to my cousin's bridal shower? at first i Rsvp'd that i'd go but when i asked if my daughter could go she said that kids weren't allowed...except for the two and three year olds on the fiance's side and her best friends' little daughters so if i couldn't find a sitter then sure bring my 11 year old, but otherwise "no kids" i don't want to go anymore. i feel like if my daughter isn't welcome then i don't want to be there either...should i just say that "something came up and i can't make it" but send a gift? am i being weird? -the same thing happened for her baby shower, they told me "no kids" but then when i went there, there were like 6 two year olds. my daughter is older and well behaved so idgi. the parties are always in their backyard its not like they're paying for a plate somewhere. 3 amore

me and film crew self portrait [May0513] selfportraits [shannonkringen] Goddess Kring & Crew me and the super duper fun and nice film crew that i worked with today! i was the first person they interviewed for the documentary movie they are making about public access tv. i had such fun answering questions on camera for them! they were so kind and appreciated my artwork etc. i love love love being interviewed. amore

inspired by the nail polish q [May0513] thequestionclub [beetle_breath] does anyone have any recs for a pale yellow polish? Sort of this color: DK/DC: what's your favorite nail polish you own? 12 amore

Mental Mastication Redux [May0513] thequestionclub [wobblerlorri] Those of you who answered this post in the affirmative, how many of you are depressed? Chronically depressed? On medication for depression? I'll step up and say I'm on medication for severe depression, have been for years. Right now I'm on Effexor, 75 mg twice a day. I still do the same thing, but it's a lot less dramatic than before I was medicated. I will say that I didn't do it while sharing the bed with someone else, mostly out of shame because I never knew anyone else did it... 3 amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [jezemel] What nail polish are you wearing right now? 63 amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [lafinjack] Today at Costco I saw a man wearing a red conical hat, about a foot tall and as wide as his head, with a strap wrapped around the base of it several times, and about two feet of the strap hanging down the back of his neck. The rest of his clothing was a different shade of red, but I didn't think to look at it as I was just passing by. Kind of a track suit maybe? He also had an unkempt beard, so I assume it's some kind of religious headwear. GIS has failed me. What was this hat, and if it's religious, what religions use it? [edit] Visual aid! 15 amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [saloonperfume] Is anyone else here agonizingly punctual? How should I deal? I have a total stick up my ass about plans being CONCRETE and about people being EXACTLY ON TIME, and I'm definitely one of those "if you're not early, you're late" people. If plans aren't solidified days in advance I'm anxious forever, and if someone isn't on time- even if it's not important that they are- I get pissed. Like, my bf and I are supposed to go out of town tomorrow but he still hasn't worked it out with me exactly WHEN we're going and it's driving me insane (even though as long as we're there by 4:30 tomorrow, we're good, and it's only like an hour drive).It's starting to introduce a lot of unnecessary stress in my life because a lot of people close to me can't seem to be on time to save their lives, and also, hey, most people aren't as uptight about that stuff. HOW ARE THE PUNCTUAL AND TACTICAL SUPPOSED TO COPE IN A WORLD THAT IS ALWAYS LATE AND JUST DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK? Serious/non serious. Also, what's your favorite flavor of jam/jelly/preserves for a PB&J? 12 amore

Itching after sex? [May0513] vaginapagina [turnemetoashes] I had sex on Friday night, and the next day I started experiencing itching around the entrance of my vagina, even more so this morning. We did have sex for quite a long time, and being sick with a cold everything has been a bit dry - I was nowhere near as wet as I usually would be. I'm guessing it's just from a bit of chafing from the sex that's probably healing? I've experienced it before, after extended sessions. Has anyone else had this? Thanks :) amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [littleant] Can someone help explain why the situation in Europe seems to be escalating (yes, typo, I get it) on multiple fronts? I wander into the comments section on CNN.com and see rampant, bloodthirsty Muslim bashing. 13 amore

How to help when partner having erection problems [May0513] vaginapagina [hide_away_away] Hi guys, you always have helped me so much in the past, I am back again! This feels like I need to ask this question in a male community but I don't know of any where I will get serious answers. I have checked the tags here (not sure where it should be tagged!) can't seem to find anything about this but I could be wrong and please direct me to the right place if not!  So I just got together with a new guy, we get on amazing and are getting close and all that good stuff. Anyway so things have naturally progressed and the other day I stayed over his. The problem came in that he couldn't get an erection, we'd been fooling around a while and he said he'd had one then but then once we moved to his bedroom and then his erection went. It's not a problem, he just got frustrated and stressed out and maybe very tired and I don't know, I feel it was mostly just the pressure, I hope anyway, we still really close and we found other things to do and I tried to reassure him and chill him out as best I could. I know these things can happen for whatever reason. It's happened again last night though so this is twice now and he just gets stressed but I don't want to ask him why because I know he can't like control it. My question is kinda more how I should react, obviously I reassure him it's fine and all that, and we find other things to do, but I am quite unexperienced in bed (one other partner, only had sex a handful of times) and never been in a situation where the guy hasn't had at least part of an erection before we started that always quickly became a full erection. I did try and give him a hand job basically, stroke him and stuff, but I didn't know what the best to do was, he still wasn't getting an erection (but then I am unexpereinced so I don't know if I am even doing the right thing) and I didn't know whether it was best to just leave him, because I didn't want him to feel more pressure if I was trying to make him get hard y'know? So I ended up just kinda ignoring him down there and touching him everywhere else but I'm not sure if that's good either cause then he's got nothing to make him get hard? What's normal, do you like touch a guy til he gets an erection? And then what if he doesnt? Same with a blow job, I've only done that when the guy is already hard but is it ok to try while he is still soft? If it wasn't that he seemed frustrated to start with because he was clearly turned on but it just wasn't happening I probably would've assumed I should touch/suck him to get him to get an erection, but because it seemed like he already felt he should have one (there was a lot of other foreplay and stuff) I felt maybe I shouldn't because I didn't want to stress him more. I know I should probably ask him what he would prefer and I likely will if it happpens again but right now he seems so stressed out about it and frustrated with himself that I don't want to make it worse by asking him what he wants me to do. So I just wondered if others have been in this situations and how you usually deal with it, and I guess just simply wondered if it's a rare thing for a guy to not get an erection straight away, I feel so naive asking this but I honestly don't really know even though I'm like 25 and should know this stuff! 8 amore

Cheese! [May0513] thequestionclub [charuby] What's your favourite cheese? Mine is blue cheese, I think. I do have a lot of favourites though, but blue cheese is at the top. Gorgonzola is my favourite blue cheese. I prefer to just eat it as it is. 41 amore

Text Secrets #138 [May0513] ljsecret [loveshannon] ( You are about to view content that may only be appropriate for adults. ) 46 amore

Something fishy about this post ... [May0513] thequestionclub [boplenty] You are shopping in the local grocery and you hypothetically must buy salmon, and your only choices are limited. Poll #1915554 Salmon Poll Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 58 Which one would you buy? View Answers Frozen filets, made from wild-caught fish. 51 (89.5%) Fresh filets, made from farm-raised fish, with artificial color. 6 (10.5%) 11 amore

Inspired by an earlier post [May0513] thequestionclub [striga] A bizarre string of circumstances has made it necessary for you to marry a fictional character. This character is initially smitten with you, but you'll have to put in the usual sort of work to make the marriage a success. Who will you marry? 35 amore

seriously? [May0513] thequestionclub [sweetheart] My ex and I are on a family plan with Verizon because our contract isn't up. He threatened to get a print out of every single text message I've sent or received. Can he actually do this? And when I say print out, I mean what they actually said. Posted via LiveJournal app for Android. 13 amore

Lazy Side Dishes [May0513] thequestionclub [empressmaude] Hey TQC, I volunteered to bring a side dish to a family gathering tomorrow. Unfortunately, I have a very limited budget, and I can't really cook that well. What is the easiest possible side dish I can make? Bonus points is there's little to no actual cooking of ingredients involved. Side dishes that are already being brought include: Cheese Dip, potato salad, macaroni and cheese, cake, fruit salad, etc. EDIT: Wow, you guys! These are awesome ideas! 21 amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [hajiomatic] What happened to hajiomatic?? I haven't seen him for a spell. 19 amore

hello stranger.. [May0513] selfportraits [myoralfixations] [ mood | discontent ] ( I forgot you existedCollapse ) 5 amore

[May0513] thequestionclub [kittenkissies] How many women here enjoy wearing pantyhose or tights? Did/ do you wear them when it isn't/wasn't fashionable? 39 amore

sims medieval rgb code question [May0513] thequestionclub [drives_a_pin] my girlfriend just bought the sims medieval and she just used the cheat to unlock all the outfits. At the moment she's creating a new character and there's a cute skirt outfit but the only way to show some leg is to wear a different outfit which is atrocious. my question is there a way to make the tights resemble the default skin tone using rgb code? Its the default spy character with the default skin right under the top left choice(idk if that makes sense, i dont know how else to describe it). dk/dc-what are your thoughts on the next generation of gaming consoles; are you more excited about ps4, xbox one, the next wii(idk what it's called)or are you pc/mac/linux gamer? 11 amore

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