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YAY!! [05 Feb 2004|03:26pm]
[ mood | happy ]


Are You in Love...
or Forcing It?

In Love
Baby, you have something more precious than diamonds: totally legit love. If he were to dump you tomorrow (the horror!), you'd mourn his scent, his kisses, even his completely ridiculous sense of humor. In fact, you're so enamored, you'd still be rip-his-pants-off attracted to him even if he lost his job or his looks took a nosedive. "You feel such a deep sense of adulation and respect for your partner that you're sure you can grow and change and your love won't dip," says Nancy Rosenbach, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in New York City and Long Island. "That kind of confidence comes from letting a relationship develop at its own speed. And if you do wind up marrying this person, you know it won't be about planning the wedding and all the romance that surrounds it. It will be about the privilege of having this amazing man with you for life."

Another sign you're smitten: In addition to being sexually electrified by him, you don't need anyone else singing his praises -- whether he's considered a catch by your friends or family is completely irrelevant. As long as you're content, that's what counts. "The fact that you don't have to ask your friends to verify that you're a great couple means you're totally secure in the relationship," says Rosenbach. Plus, you don't really feel jealous or competitive with friends who are moving faster than you are on their couple track. Because let's face it: You know what you have feels right, and all those fabulous we're-in-it-forever milestones will eventually happen. "When a person is legitimately in love, she's not trying to live up to other people's ideals of what the perfect relationship should be," says Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D., a relationship therapist in New York City and author of Make Up, Don't Break Up. "You trust the strong emotions you feel in your gut, and that is all that matters."

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[03 Feb 2004|10:30pm]
[ mood | discontent ]

So scared....


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[01 Feb 2004|01:28pm]
[ mood | lonely ]

Now I wait
Wish these thoughts would go away
I hope I dream of you
Cause it's taking my life away
No I don't hate
But these thoughts won't go away
I hope I dream of you
Cause it's taking my life away

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*YAWN* [30 Jan 2004|02:46pm]
[ mood | lethargic ]

OH joy...the weekend is here...nothing to do. Monday i'll go to the gym...this weekend i'm going to take long hot bubble baths and read a load of crappy gossip magazines and drink tea. I miss my Philly...*sigh*

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[29 Jan 2004|10:19pm]
[ mood | sad ]

Life is so preposterously meaningless.....

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[31 Dec 2003|10:06pm]
[ mood | amused ]

Which Genocidal Maniac Are You?
Brought to you by Rum and Monkey

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How...ironic. [24 Jun 2003|02:50pm]
my immo
My Immortal

*What Song by Evanescence are You?*
brought to you by Quizilla
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[25 Feb 2003|04:50pm]
Joey, baby..
Don't get crazy..
Detours, Fences..
I get defensive..

I know you've heard it all before..
So I don't say it anymore..
I just stand by and let you
fight your secret war..
And though I used to wonder why..
I used to cry till I was dry..
Still sometimes I get a strange pain
Oh, Joey, if you're hurting so am I..

Joey, honey..
I'll save all my money..
All is forgiven..
Listen, listen..

Cause if I seemed to be confused..
I didn't mean to be with you..
And when you said I scared you,
well I guess you scared me too..
But we got lucky once before..
And I don't wanna close the door..
But if you're somewhere out there
passed out on her floor..
Oh Joey, I'm not angry anymore..

Cause if I seemed to be confused..
I didn't mean to me with you..
But when you said I scared you,
Well, I guess you scared me too..
But If it's love you're looking for..
Well I can give a whole lot more..
And if you're somewhere out there
passed out on her floor..
Oh, Joey I'm not angry anymore..
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[28 Jan 2003|12:43am]
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[09 Jan 2003|01:45pm]
[ mood | melancholy ]

1) First Grade Teacher: Mrs. Gravehurst...I think it is...
2) Last word you said: ...it!
3) Last song you sang: 6,8,12 by Brian McKnight <---that song is harsh...*sniff*
4) Last person you hugged: Jamie
5) Last thing you laughed at: My lack of dignity!
6) Last time you said 'I love you': NEXT QUESTION..
7) Last time you cried: About 2 hours ago
8) What's in your CD player: Aaliyah CD
9) What colour socks are you wearing: Baby blue
10) What's under your bed: Most likely my cats.
11) What time did you wake up today: About 8am
12) Current taste: Arrowroot cookies
13) Current hair: Umm...A sort of golden brown.
14) Current clothes: Pink track bottoms and a hoodie
15) Current annoyance: Lonliness
16) Current longing: To have all my feelings disappear for awhile.
17) Current desktop picture: Pretty islands
18) Current worry: What to do about my life.
19) Current hate: Whoever is in charge of my life up there...'cause they're really taking the piss.
20) Story behind your LJ username: If they made a book out of my life that would be the title.
21) Current favourite article of clothing: Not bothered at the moment.
22) Favourite physical feature of the opposite sex/same sex: Eyes...definitely
23) Last CD that you bought: I don't buy I burn...
24) Favourite place to be: Right now i'm not really comfortable anywhere really...not a good time to ask.
25) Least favourite place: Right here.
26) Time you wake up in the morning: When I have to have a wee.
27) If you could play an instrument, what would it be: Piano or something I dunno...
28) Favourite color: icey blue
29) Do you believe in an afterlife: Not if it's as crap as the present life no.
30) How tall are you: 5' 9 1/2"
31) Current favourite word/saying: "Euuurrrghhhh" or some other sorrowful moan...
32) Favourite book: Red Dragon
33) Favourite season: Fall/Winter
34) One person from your past you wish you could go back and talk to: My Nana
35) Favourite day: Saturday
36) Where do you want to go: Anywhere but here...
37) What is your career going to be like: Alot of bitching at people and then firing them most likely....lovely isn't it?
38) How many kids do you want: 3
39) What kind of car will you have: Toyota RAV 4
40) Identify some things surrounding your computer: My person...a desk...a chair...speakers...a lamp...loads of cds 'n stuff..

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[09 Jan 2003|11:23am]
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