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May. 28th, 2009 | 12:18 pm

If the day and the night are such that you greet them with joy, and life emits a fragrance like flowers, is more elastic, more starry, more immortal- that is your success.
Henry David Thoreau

The problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities; We need men who can dream of things that never were!
John F. Kennedy

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me &you in love .

Jul. 28th, 2007 | 09:50 pm
mood: curious curious

SUN in SCORPIO with ARIES You are both willful and passionate
people, with a strong desire to live intensely and directly, and you
love this about each other. There is a lot of fire in your
relationship and you are likely to fight ferociously sometimes.
Aries, however, can release anger and emotions and then forget about
it, while Scorpio nurses grudges and resentments, and may hold on to
the wounds that Aries unthinkingly inflicts. Also, Scorpio needs to
feel intensely bonded emotionally, and Aries may not have the same
overwhelming need for closeness.

SUN in SCORPIO with TAURUS There is a strong magnetic attraction
between the two of you and even if you have little in common
intellectually or spiritually, your physical relationship is likely
to be very intense, binding you together. If you do have common
interests and resonate on an intellectual level as well, you will be
unable to stay away from each other! You are both very possessive,
and Scorpio especially is prone to jealousy. There are significant
differences in your emotional makeup, however: Taurus is steadier,
simpler, less complex, and less needy than Scorpio is. Scorpio
demands more in terms of emotional involvement and depth of intimacy
than Taurus. You are both extremely stubborn, strongwilled people
and you both need to learn to bend and compromise more graciously in
order to harmonize with one another. Neither of you is especially
articulate or communicative about the things that matter most to you,
and much misunderstanding can result.

SUN in SCORPIO with GEMINI You two are very different! Scorpio
becomes intensely involved emotionally to particular people and
places. Scorpio bonds deeply and becomes very attached to close
people and especially to a lover.Gemini , by contrast, takes life in
a lighter vein and usually does not become as emotionally involved
and attached to things as Scorpio. Scorpio may feel that Gemini is
superficial, evasive, childish, and not serious enough, while Gemini
may feel that Scorpio is too heavy, intense, demanding, and
insatiable. Scorpio thrives on intensive, direct experiences and is
best suited to a life style that involves direct, nonvicarious,
nonintellectual activities of forceful, instinctive, or natural kind,
preferably using one's hands examples: surgery, deep sea diving,
most competitive athletic sports, sex, pottery, etc. while Gemini's
approach is more cerebral, less focused and intensive, and more
varied. The disparity between your two approaches to life is great
and you need to strive to make your differences complement each other
rather than interfere with each other. The truth is you are probably
attracted to the very same qualities that make you so different.

SUN in SCORPIO with CANCER Both of you have strong, deep feelings
and you bond very intensely. Consequently you become very attached to
each other and cling tightly to each other. However, your emotional
natures are different in many ways too. Cancer often feels more
compassion and sympathy for someone, while Scorpio may view Cancer's
feelings as sentimentality. When wounded, Scorpio becomes resentful
and vindictive. Cancer, on the other hand, cries or sulks, and
usually lets the other person know verbally or nonverbally about
it. Scorpio, by contrast, hides it. You may also have different
attitudes towards sexuality versus love. For example, Cancer may feel
that Scorpio is sometimes more driven by instinct and lust than by
love, and this may become an issue in your relationship. Overall,
though, the intense bonding and emotionality of your relationship
fosters a deep, lasting attachment between you.

SUN in SCORPIO with LEO Both of you are very proud, stubborn, strong
willed individuals and you are attracted to the strength of character
that you sense in each other. There is a feeling of conquest between
you that may serve to intensify the excitement of your attraction to
each other. However, your strong wills may also prove to be a problem
in a long term relationship. You face the possibility that your
combined inflexibility will make it difficult for the two of you to
reach mutually satisfying decisions and both of you tend to
stubbornly resist compromising when your preferences are different. A
battle of wills is likely to ensue! Another potential problem is
jealousy or lopsided bonding. Scorpio bonds very intensely in
romantic relationships and is inclined towards monogamy. Leo is also
very loyal, but not nearly as intense, emotional, or obsessive as
Scorpio is.

SUN in SCORPIO with VIRGO There are times when Scorpio strides
fearlessly into a challenging situation, and Virgo feels much more
cautious and careful. Scorpio may consider Virgo to be too timid,
and Virgo may feel that Scorpio lacks prudence. There are also many
situations where Scorpio is more stubborn and persevering than Virgo
. Scorpio may view Virgo's lack of commitment and dedication to a
single purpose to be a sign of weakness. There is also the
possibility that Virgo will view Scorpio as being a bit crude, too
passionate or emotionally attached to certain situations or ideas.
Virgo has refined sensitivities and sometimes literally doesn't like
to get dirty hands, while Scorpio is more primitive, raw, and
unsqueamish. You both need to strive to harmonize your different
natures and not antagonize each other.

SUN in SCORPIO with LIBRA In many situations, Scorpio will respond
with greater emotional intensity than Libra. While Libra is not a
cool and aloof individual, Scorpio's feelings can run deeper. For
example, both of you want a close relationship, but Scorpio can
become intensely fixated on a person and possessive, whereas Libra
maintains a sense of proportion and some reasonable degree of
objectivity and emotional distance from others, even in marriage.
Scorpio's urge to merge can be very powerful. Libra's approach to
life, in general, tends to be more moderate and well balanced, while
Scorpio tends to periodically become intensely focused on some area
of concern and become even fanatical in pursuit of some interest.
Libra's detached fairness can infuriate Scorpio at times, and Scorpio
's inexplicable dark moods or fervent responses bewilder Libra. These
differences need not create serious problems in your relationship.
Emotional bonds between you can be very strong, especially if other
astrological indications indicate strong romantic or sexual ties.

SUN in SCORPIO with SCORPIO Your partnership is an intense one, and
you are likely to become very attached to, or obsessed with each
other. If romantic attraction is even reasonably strong, this
relationship could easily lead to marriage. First of all, both of you
are very oriented towards marriage. Neither of you feels comfortable
in light relationships and it is difficult for you to be just dating
someone. You prefer to be wholeheartedly involved in a deep
relationship or not at all. Both of you are also prone to be
possessive and very emotionally attached to anyone that you give your
love to. Like most lasting, important relationships, yours will have
its share of difficult times, and you both seem to thrive on
passionate, tempestuous interactions. Stormy fights and sizzling
reunions may typify your relationship. You both love intensely and
you hate with equal ferocity, so your relationship is likely to be
either deeply satisfying or very destructive to you both there is no
middle ground for the two of you.
SUN in SCORPIO with SAGITTARIUS You
are different in many ways: Very often, Sagittarius feels
lighthearted and enthusiastic about some idea, project, plan or
dream, and feels that Scorpio is too myopic and stubborn to
appreciate optimistic plans. Also, Sagittarius loves festivities and
socializing while Scorpio often feels uncomfortable with large groups
of people, and prefers a deeper, more intimate involvement with just
a few people rather than carousing with a large group. Scorpio is
capable of tremendous concentrated and persistent effort whereas
Sagittarius prefers to do a little bit of everything: traveling and
developing a wide sphere of interests and activities, rather than
being limited to a few activities. Also, Scorpio's feelings usually
run much deeper than Sagittarius's feelings, so Sagittarius
frequently fails to appreciate the depth of feeling that Scorpio
experiences. Scorpio becomes very attached, emotionally, to a love
partner and doesn't easily share Sagittarius's attention and
affection with anyone else. Sagittarius, on the other hand, is
something of a flirt and may innocently arouse intense jealousy in
Scorpio. Sagittarius can be weighted down by Scorpio's
suspiciousness, demands for loyalty and wholehearted involvement.
Worse, Sagittarius may simply ignore Scorpio's needs and not realize
how strongly Scorpio feels. Sagittarius has a much greater need for
freedom. The two of you are so different that it will take a lot of
compassion and understanding for you to be together for any length of
time.

SUN in SCORPIO with CAPRICORN Both of you are initially very
careful about revealing feelings, motives and vulnerabilities you
are unwilling to reveal your depths to others initially. It takes
time for both of you to trust and become open emotionally. Both of
you have a natural suspiciousness and reserve, and both are
disinclined to have casual relationships. The difference between you
is this: Capricorn has a much greater capacity for objectivity,
emotional distance, and detachment than Scorpio. Capricorn can be
strangely aloof at times, especially when feeling threatened, while
Scorpio will seethe with emotion. Scorpio is instinctive and
passionate, and gets totally immersed in, and attached to, a lover.
Capricorn may or may not feel as bonded, and even if Capricorn feels
as strongly as Scorpio, Capricorn may not be able to show the depth
of feelings and emotional responsiveness that Scorpio desires. This
is unlikely to be a light, frothy, fun relationship but then neither
of you really wants that anyway.

SUN in SCORPIO with AQUARIUS Aquarius is idealistic and can be very
abstract and heady, while Scorpio relies more on instinct, intuitive
sensitivity, and gut feelings. Scorpio's passions, irrational loves
and hates, and intense emotional responses baffle Aquarius , who is
far more rational and cerebral. More importantly, Scorpio is very
emotionally attached to a lover and can be become intensely fixated
on a person. Aquarius is cool, unemotional, and rather aloof by
comparison. Aquarius needs lots of friends and acquaintances but is
not as involved in personal relationships as most people. This may
create an emotional gap between you that may well be hard to
reconcile. You are also both stubborn, rather opinionated, and
inflexible. You'll need to appreciate and really understand the
differences in your temperaments to harmonize in a long term
relationship.

SUN in SCORPIO with PISCES Both of you are very sensitive,
feeling, compassionate people, and with one another you are able to
have a depth of sharing and intimacy and emotional union that you
will find with few others. Pisces' sympathetic, nonjudgmental,
understanding attitude can be a healing balm to Scorpio , who is more
emotional and who often carries secret guilts, inner conflicts, and
pain. Scorpio is more forceful than Pisces, and will sometimes lash
out with sarcasm or vindictiveness when hurt, which deeply wounds
Pisces. Pisces is gentler, has less protective armor, and is
generally more forgiving than Scorpio is. Another difference in your
natures is this: Scorpio is highly sexual and physical, while Pisces
prefers more softness, subtlety, and romance. Basically however, you
are quite compatible and can have a very fulfilling union.

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Apr. 2nd, 2007 | 12:12 am

ColorQuiz.com bonnie took the free ColorQuiz.com personality test!

"Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable ..."


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Sep. 21st, 2006 | 10:52 pm

"You were just a boy on a bed in a room, like a kaleidoscope is a tube full of bits of broken glass. But the way I saw you was pieces refracting light, shifting into an infinite universe of flowers and rainbows and insects and planets, magical dividing cells, pictures no one else knew."

"Find the goddess in yourself before looking for the god of someone else."

"Do you know what they mean when they say soulmates? Everybody uses it in personal ads: Soulmate wanted. It doesn't mean to much now. But soulmates - think about it. When your soul - whatever that is anyway - something so alive when you make music or love and so mysteriously hidden most of the rest of the time, so colorful and big but without color and shape - when your soul finds another soul it can recognize even before the rest of you knows about it. The rest of you just feels sweaty and jumpy at first. And your soul gets married without even meaning to - even if you can't be together for some reason in real life, your souls just go ahead and make wedding plans. A soul's wedding must be too b eautiful to look at. It must be blinding. It must be like all the weddings in the world - gondolas with canopies of doves, champagne glasses shattering, drums beating, wings of veils, flutes and trumpets, and showers of roses."

"There is the relief of finally being alone where no one can take anything from you."

"A green-haired girl who had never been touched by the boy to whom she was so devoted that she would have lived forever in a shack by the sea or in a ruined sandcastle even if he never made love to her."

"...and show her the stars, because she should have stars, he thought. All over her body like jewelry."

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Jun. 17th, 2006 | 06:34 pm

beautiful fears, shiny as crystal lace frost.

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solace

Apr. 25th, 2006 | 02:09 pm
mood: feather light

i sometimes forget i have sisters
the bitches who have seen my soul -
torn raw by passion and ambition but withheld by precaution;
they know me.
then my brothers become ghosts
even though it is eternal
and we would have drank the bottles too
they know me.
short of breath and over analytical
in bringing thoughs who invade my privacy
when the light is apocalyptical
i turn it off.
the shadows return then
my form cast in ash trailing behind
shading the whispers of not quite silence, but close
they know me.

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stole it from harmony.

Apr. 9th, 2006 | 11:42 am

A lot has been said about how to prevent rape.
Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. Fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.

Instead of that bullshit, how about:

If a woman is drunk, don't rape her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her.
If a women is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't rape her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her.
If a woman is in a coma, don't rape her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her.
If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her.
If your step-daughter is watching tv, don't rape her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her.
If your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.
If your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and It's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and tell the guy he's a rapist.
Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to rape someone.
Don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
Don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.

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May. 26th, 2005 | 11:24 pm

motherfuckin' friends only,
comment for add (L)

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